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BDSM Lifestyles covers all aspects of consensual explorations of sensation/power dynamics, including Bondage & Discipline, FemDom, Dominance & Submission, plus Sadism & Masochism.

Most BDSM lifestyle couples have experimented with some form of soft bondage but some swingers get great sexual pleasure from pain and therefore BDSM sessions tend to be more hardcore with serious restraints, rope play and torment taking place. Everything is still consented to though and everyone must know their limits.

Some BDSM terms:

Dominant - The person giving the orders during SM play. The dominant likes to be in control of others and they are referred to as the Dom or Domme (female dominant).
Submissive - This is the one who enjoys following orders from the Dominant and are called slaves or subs.
Scene - When two or more people get together to enjoy SM play, it is known as a scene.
Training - Conditioning or modifying the sub's behavior, undertaken by both the dom and sub.
Discipline - A form of punishment for not obeying the dominant's orders.
Toys - Equipment used in SM play such as floggers, collars, whips, chains, clamps, etc.
Safe Word - This is an agreed upon word that the sub will use when he or she wants the dom to stop or lessen the intensity of the scene. If you are with a new partner ensure they know your word before your start as not everyone will use the same one!

Once you sign up you can use our chat rooms to discuss with other contacts BDSM topics, get advice on how to start or find new sex contacts to act out your bondage fantasies!

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