Advice for new Swinging couples
& Newbie Swingers

Looking for free Swingers advice? are you a new to swinging and need a bit of guide dance? in that case we ca help that will hopefully stop you making common mistakes

This page is dedicated to those newbie swingers that are joining the scene for the first time, and whilst as swingers we welcome new members into the scene what we want to do is make sure you don't fall into some of the common problems that can sometimes happen to newer swinging couples.

Indeed this could also be said it applies to single swingers, although for singles most of these addressed problems don't really apply, as you only have one person to consider !! YOU

Thanks to the internet its never been easier to meet up with other swinging couples, but you need to make sure you joining a swingers website for all the right reasons otherwise your walking into possible long term problems, what we don't want to do is put newbie swinging couples off we just wan to make sure your join for the right reasons

Don"t push your partner into swinging - it may seem a daft thing to say, but a member either females or male that pushes a partner into the scene is asking for trouble. Talk with your partner why you want to join a swingers website and if your BOTH not fully happy then don't join. Joining a swingers website will and can turn your sexual fantasies into reality but dragging a reluctant partner into the scene will lead to problems and a high risk that it will damage your relationship.
Your Profile - this is where so many new swingers fall right at the first hurdle by throwing up a swingers personals profile with little or no thought. Read other members profiles, get a feel for what other members are posting then spend sometime working on yours. A well written profile will get loads more replies
Consider your boundaries - This is a biggy and really something you will need to address within your personals advert as well. You both need to talk about just how far your happy to go, in other words are YOU happy to see your husband fucking another women? if yes fine, if not then perhaps you need to consider soft swapping till your more confidant about watching your partner with another swinger - So working out your sexual boundaries is something that first you need to address within your ad but differently NOT when your sat in someone's house or a party!
Don't fall for swingers - remember why your swinging its for SEX nothing else so don't go getting attached or telling another swinger that you have feelings for them. Some members do look towards building friendships which rather than just shagging someone you don't know but above all NEVER fall for swingers you meet as thats NOT why they are swinging, they are doing it for NSA sex with others, that they can just walk away from

These may seem a little obvious but you'll be amazed just how many people fail to consider these pointers. So long as you discuss EVERYTHING with your partner you'll have a great swinging time and meet up with loads of swinging contacts around the UK or indeed Europe

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Advice for new Swinging couples & Newbie Swingers

Advice for new Swinging couples
& Newbie Swingers